Friday, March 30, 2007

What's happening to the world?!

Well, I 've been rather disturbed lately.. been thinking alot, so i shall just write down some of my thoughts here...

Well, 1st of all, I've been listening to a lot of radio (cuz I got my new phone and it has radio!). Does anyone realise that like 80% of the songs are about love? (and another 10% is pointless rubbish) And out of these love songs, 80% are about sex? For that matter they use words like 'i wanna love you', and that directly translates to 'i wanna have sex with you' if u listen on to the song lyrics. Seems like the world equates love with sex or something. Pple say 'i love you' all the time. It's used so liberally. But what really is love? If it's not just sex, then maybe it's an attraction? or maybe it's just a feeling? Well, that's what many pple think, but love is supposed to be so much more than this! Isn't it sad that love is seen as such a worthless thing nowadays (so many pple claim to love each other, but look at the way they hurt each other, is that love?)... A few years ago it wasn't like this.. Or perhaps i've grown more aware?
Sigh so this is the world we live in eh? Kinda had a bad reality check. So what happened to no sex before marriage, and having sex with only ur spouse after marriage? It's getting harder to keep these values up in this world, and sometimes i wonder if i'll have the strength to continue being faithful to what i've believed in for the past 19 yrs of my life.. Even some of my closest friends have quite liberal views about this. And even they don't think I can keep it up... But I know this is important. Because God is the one who made us, so he knows what is the best for us. Even if you dun believe in God, you have to admit that liberal views on this issue can destroy relationships and future marriages (i mean, how would u feel if u found ur boyfriend/husband one day 'on the bathroom floor banging with the girl next door'?! and how would u feel if on your wedding night ur husband tells u u're lousy in bed and describes all the other girls he's slept with and how much better they are? wouldn't it be better if both u and him have nothing to compare that special moment to?). Sigh it's hard.. My dear friends, please pray for mi k?

Other than that there are my frens in army. I've heard of so many pple who go into army and backslide. Some come out with vocabulary u've neva heard them say before. And I know most pple will tell me, 'well, everybody does it, welcome to the world!". But do things really have to be like that? Strange, pple talk about changing the world, but once they're out there in it, they become like it and there goes the 'changing the world' dream... Sad isn't it? Maybe one day i'll also become like that? I hope not...

Yup, let's keep praying ok, let's not give up and say, "arh well, it's too hard, forget it." let's keep praying for one another to stay faithful to our cause :)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

heys dear.. haha. just wanna say dun be discouraged lor :P yup yup.. cause we are in this world but not of this world.. and anyway everyone makes their own choices.. no need to be influnced by the people around lor.. haha i for one am a stubborn person and will stick to my views :P

Anonymous said...

haha yay i'm not the one with liberal views!

- you know who :)

layQ said...

haha i know you know who too :P ahh grace update from from tkgs please!!